If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed
(John 8:36)
Question: I
have remarried am I in a continual state of adultery?
If you
are not remarried than seek God for your answer, this is your life both
natural, and spiritual. Let God led you; you will I know His will. The Bible
says that God gives us the desires of our heart (Psalm
37:4)
and if we learn to praise Him, and Worship Him, not for what He can give us,
But because He is; then He will give us the desire of our hearts. Though it
must be clearly understood that it was not our praises or worship or anything
that we did earned us the desires of our heart. No God knows them better than
we do. I think of His blessing I this way. “God gives us the very thing we would ask
for if we knew what He knows”
Now it make no difference that we do not deserve them in anyway but because He is a gracious and loving God, and it is His good pleasure to give us the Kingdom. (Luke 12:32)Therefore, we need to come to that point where we desire God greater than what He can give us. Where we desire the gift greater than the giver. It has to be “Father this is the desire of my heart, I truly want this, but if You never give it to me, and only gave me You it will be sufficient in my life..”
Now it make no difference that we do not deserve them in anyway but because He is a gracious and loving God, and it is His good pleasure to give us the Kingdom. (Luke 12:32)Therefore, we need to come to that point where we desire God greater than what He can give us. Where we desire the gift greater than the giver. It has to be “Father this is the desire of my heart, I truly want this, but if You never give it to me, and only gave me You it will be sufficient in my life..”
Now the
question is if “I remarry will I be in a state of continual adultery?” Some people are going to hate me for this but
I must say it. Ready? Don’t let anyone tell you that because you were divorced
that you should remain divorced. I am
hard pressed to believe that the Bible teaches that. However, there are 3
instances that I know of where remarrying is Not a sin. Moreover, those three cases are founded on a harden heart, (see Malachi 2:14-15, Mark 10:5, Matthews 5:32, and Matthews 19:9) And I believe
since God has made exceptions for those three occasions there may be others for
which we cannot know. This is especially inferred as possible in light of the
fact that both Jesus and Malachi speak against divorce on the grounds of lust, treachery,
and hardness of heart. The 3 exceptions for divorce and remarriage which we
know of are;
However,
please understand that it is the decision to get remarried and the actual act of getting remarried which
sin Once you are remarried your marriage
is not sinful. Nor does God turn His back on your relationship because of the
remarriage. Moreover, the sin does not occur every time the marriage is
consummated. Nor has God chosen to stop blessing you because of it.
Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you,
Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. And the servant abideth
not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. If the Son therefore
shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed. John 8:34-36 (KJV)
Shalome
T.Charves FireSpeaks
